{"id":107,"date":"2019-05-13T21:42:24","date_gmt":"2019-05-13T19:42:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/?p=107"},"modified":"2019-05-13T21:42:39","modified_gmt":"2019-05-13T19:42:39","slug":"laska-jako-zivotni-styl-uvod","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/2019\/05\/13\/laska-jako-zivotni-styl-uvod\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e1ska jako \u017eivotn\u00ed styl &#8211; \u00favod"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kniha Geryho Chapmana &#8211; <strong>L\u00e1ska jako \u017eivotn\u00ed styl<\/strong>. Vydalo nakladatelstv\u00ed <a href=\"http:\/\/www.navrat.cz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">N\u00e1vrat dom\u016f<\/a>. Objednat si ji m\u016f\u017eete na <a href=\"http:\/\/www.gimel.cz\/index.php?g=kniha_chapman_gary_laska_jako_zivotni_styl_db2137\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Gimelu<\/a>.<br>\nAutor v knize p\u0159edkl\u00e1d\u00e1 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159i sv\u00e9 poznatky ze sv\u00e9 praxe &#8211; sedm typick\u00fdch rys\u016f pro miluj\u00edc\u00edho \u010dlov\u011bka &#8211;\n\n\n\n\n<strong>Laskavost, trp\u011blivost, odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, pokora, zdvo\u0159ilost, \u0161t\u011bdrost, poctivost<\/strong>.             \n\n\n\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jsou to <strong><em>n\u00e1vyky<\/em><\/strong>,\n kter\u00e9 si osvojujeme, kdy\u017e se rozhodnete b\u00fdt skute\u010dn\u011b miluj\u00edc\u00edmi lidmi. \nPraktick\u00e9 postoje, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017eeme projevovat v ka\u017edodenn\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b. Pokud \nse tyto postoje stanou na\u0161imi ka\u017edodenn\u00edmi n\u00e1vyky, do\u010dk\u00e1me se \npozoruhodn\u00fdch v\u00fdsledk\u016f: <em>budeme nach\u00e1zet uspokojen\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kl\u00ed\u010d k \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00fdm vztah\u016fm, ale i k \u00fasp\u011bchu v \u017eivot\u011b jako celku. Mnoho lid\u00ed to tu\u0161\u00ed, ale neuv\u011bdomuje si to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>L\u00e1ska p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed uspokojen\u00ed<\/strong> \u2013 <em>jednou z nejkr\u00e1sn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch odm\u011bn, kter\u00e9 \u017eivot p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed, je to, \u017ee pom\u00e1h\u00e1me-li up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b druh\u00fdm, pom\u00e1h\u00e1me i sami sob\u011b<\/em>. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autor navazuje (vych\u00e1z\u00ed) z knihy P\u011bt jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky: (spr\u00e1vn\u011b milovat druh\u00e9) &#8211; <strong>Slova uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, pozornost, p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed dar\u016f, skutky slu\u017eby, fyzick\u00fd kontakt<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pozn\u00e1n\u00ed p\u011bti jazyk\u016f l\u00e1sky neznamen\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b, \u017ee se chci nau\u010dit jazyk l\u00e1sky, jemu\u017e rozum\u00ed moji nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201ePokud se m\u00e1 \u017eena bude c\u00edtit milov\u00e1na, jen pokud budu um\u00fdvat n\u00e1dob\u00ed, vys\u00e1vat koberec \u010di pr\u00e1t, pak se asi nedo\u010dk\u00e1.\u201c &#8211; pozn\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e1sky nechyb\u00ed, chyb\u00ed <em><strong>postoj l\u00e1sky<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>V\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed chce opravdu milovat<\/em>,\n je to dobr\u00fd pocit, kdy\u017e svou energii vynakl\u00e1d\u00e1me na to, abychom druh\u00e9 \nmilovali. Naopak kdy\u017e se zam\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme nad sv\u00fdm sobeck\u00fdm jedn\u00e1n\u00edm, m\u00e1me ze \nsebe \u0161patn\u00fd pocit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(<em>Fall in love \u2013 zamilovat se<\/em>) spadnout do l\u00e1sky. Jak hluboko pad\u00e1te do l\u00e1sky? Co c\u00edt\u00edte, kdy\u017e padnete na dno?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Skute\u010dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska je v na\u0161ich mo\u017enostech (nen\u00ed to t\u011b\u017eko dosa\u017eiteln\u00fd c\u00edl z\u00e1visl\u00fd na jedn\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch). L\u00e1ska pramen\u00ed z na\u0161ich postoj\u016f a vrchol\u00ed v na\u0161em jedn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Domn\u00edv\u00e1me-li se, \u017ee l\u00e1ska\n je cit, budeme frustrov\u00e1ni, pokud v sob\u011b tento cit poka\u017ed\u00e9 nenajdeme. \nPochop\u00edme-li, \u017ee l\u00e1ska je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, budeme p\u0159ipraveni pou\u017e\u00edvat \nn\u00e1stroj\u016f, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me k dispozici, abychom mohli milovat l\u00e9pe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ve skute\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sce se projevuje na\u0161e skute\u010dn\u00e9 j\u00e1, ten \u010dlov\u011bk, j\u00edm\u017e se tou\u017e\u00edme st\u00e1t.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rozhodnut\u00ed pro l\u00e1sku: neubydou probl\u00e9my (nemoci, nehody, z\u00e1plavy, a jin\u00e1 ne\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. i pron\u00e1sledov\u00e1n\u00ed)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Na l\u00e1skou napln\u011bn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b \nje kr\u00e1sn\u00e9, \u017ee na\u0161e uspokojen\u00ed nen\u00ed z\u00e1visl\u00e9 na okolnostech. Radost n\u00e1m \nzp\u016fsob\u00ed rozhodnut\u00ed milovat druh\u00e9 bez ohledu na to, zda oni miluj\u00ed n\u00e1s, a\n bez ohledu na to, zda se okolnosti vyv\u00edjej\u00ed tak, jak jsme si \np\u0159edstavovali.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prvotn\u00ed c\u00edrkev \u2013 p\u00e9\u010de o \nchud\u00e9, l\u00e1ska k nep\u0159\u00e1tel\u016fm \u2013 zv\u00edt\u011bzili nad upadaj\u00edc\u00ed sob\u011bst\u0159ednou \nkulturou. Vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska se projevovala v mali\u010dkostech &#8211; d\u011blba o \nmajetek, j\u00eddlo, soucit s t\u011bmi, co jsou na okraji spole\u010dnosti. \u0158\u00edmsk\u00e1 \n\u0159\u00ed\u0161e p\u0159ijala novou sektu \u2013 hle\u010fte jak se miluj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u00e1ska za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 drobn\u00fdmi nepatrn\u00fdmi skutky \u2013 <strong>mysl\u00edme si, \u017ee to p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nezm\u011bn\u00ed \u2013 <\/strong><strong>omyl<\/strong>!\n Nelze vz\u00edt s\u00edlu na velk\u00e9 skutky, kdy\u017e nejsem schopen vykonat ani \ndrobn\u00fd! L\u00e1ska je realistick\u00e1, ba co v\u00edc, je to na\u0161e jedin\u00e1 \u0161ance na \np\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Chcete-li n\u011bkoho skute\u010dn\u011b milovat, za\u010dn\u011bte mali\u010dkostmi !!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Jak mohu r\u016fst v l\u00e1sce?<\/strong><br>\nM\u00e1me-li se st\u00e1t miluj\u00edc\u00edmi lidmi \u2013 budeme muset vynalo\u017eit ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u00fasil\u00ed (nez\u00e1visle na prost\u0159ed\u00ed). <em>Je v n\u00e1s cosi, co se stav\u00ed proti touze skute\u010dn\u011b milovat<\/em>. Fale\u0161n\u00e9 j\u00e1 \u2013 \u010d\u00e1st p\u0159irozenosti v n\u00e1s, jen\u017e klade n\u00e1\u0161 vlastn\u00ed \u00fasp\u011bch nad prosp\u011bch druh\u00fdch &#8211; vede k sobeckosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Budeme-li uplat\u0148ovat sedm\n rys\u016f l\u00e1sky, pom\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1m to vybudovat ty nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 vztahy. \nNeuplat\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed vede k zauj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed negativn\u00edch postoj\u016f v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm, \nneklidn\u00ed, p\u0159ipraveni k sebeobran\u011b \u010di proti\u00fatoku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rozhodnut\u00ed milovat \nskute\u010dnou l\u00e1skou &#8211; touha r\u016fst v l\u00e1sce a ukazovat sv\u00e9 skute\u010dn\u00e9 j\u00e1 bude \nvyv\u011brat z na\u0161ich prom\u011bn\u011bn\u00fdch srdc\u00ed st\u00e1le p\u0159irozen\u011bji. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed pouze na \nn\u00e1s, jak chceme tuto l\u00e1sku projevovat druh\u00fdm \u2013 u\u010d\u00edme se to a \u010d\u00edm to bude\n \u010dast\u011bji, t\u00edm bude l\u00e1ska k druh\u00fdm sna\u017e\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kniha Geryho Chapmana &#8211; L\u00e1ska jako \u017eivotn\u00ed styl. Vydalo nakladatelstv\u00ed N\u00e1vrat dom\u016f. Objednat si ji m\u016f\u017eete na Gimelu. Autor v knize p\u0159edkl\u00e1d\u00e1 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159i sv\u00e9 poznatky ze sv\u00e9 praxe &#8211; sedm typick\u00fdch rys\u016f&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":108,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-107","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-knihy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=107"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":109,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107\/revisions\/109"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=107"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=107"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=107"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}