{"id":120,"date":"2019-05-25T08:00:28","date_gmt":"2019-05-25T06:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/?p=120"},"modified":"2019-05-16T15:55:39","modified_gmt":"2019-05-16T13:55:39","slug":"laska-jako-zivotni-styl-odpusteni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/2019\/05\/25\/laska-jako-zivotni-styl-odpusteni\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e1ska jako \u017eivotn\u00ed styl &#8211; odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed<\/strong> &#8211; nez\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1me v moci hn\u011bvu<br>\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"> <strong>Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed nen\u00ed n\u00e1hodn\u00fd \u010din. Je to trval\u00fd postoj.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Martin Luther King ml.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jsme nesm\u00edrn\u011b mor\u00e1ln\u00ed bytosti. Kdy\u017e n\u00e1m n\u011bkdo ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, cosi v na\u0161em nitru n\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: <em>To nen\u00ed spr\u00e1vn\u00e9. Ten, kdo to zp\u016fsobil, za to mus\u00ed zaplatit.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Skute\u010dn\u00e9 odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed je mo\u017en\u00e9 tam, kde p\u016fsob\u00ed jak spravedlnost, tak l\u00e1ska.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sou\u010dasn\u011b plat\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edky l\u00e1sce je ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s schopen odpou\u0161t\u011bt, a to v jak\u00e9mkoli vztahu.<em><strong><br>\n<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Pro\u010d pot\u0159ebujeme odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>1.<\/strong> Lidsk\u00e9 bytosti jsou svobodn\u00e9 \u2013 mohou milovat i nen\u00e1vid\u011bt (mohou se vydat \u0161patn\u00fdm sm\u011brem \u2013 ubli\u017euj\u00ed sob\u011b i sv\u00fdm bl\u00edzk\u00fdm)<br>\n<strong>2.<\/strong> Bez odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed se v \nmezilidsk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch neobejdeme, nebo\u0165 na\u0161e svoboda n\u00e1s zpravidla \np\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed k sobeck\u00fdm \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm \u2013 co je dobr\u00e9 pro m\u011b?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>U\u010d\u00edme se odpou\u0161t\u011bt: <\/strong><\/em><br>\nMus\u00edme pok\u00e1rat \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m ubl\u00ed\u017eil \u2013 postupujeme pravdiv\u011b a laskav\u011b. \u0158\u00edci druh\u00e9mu, co se n\u00e1s dotklo. Nab\u00eddneme odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nejlep\u0161\u00ed je, kdy\u017e vin\u00edk p\u0159izn\u00e1, \u017ee ud\u011blal chybu, a vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00ed touhu se \nn\u011b\u010deho takov\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b nedopustit. To o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me \u2013 pak m\u016f\u017eeme odpustit.<br>\nZa\u010dne proces obnovov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bry \u2013 bez \u00fa\u010dasti druh\u00e9 strany nem\u016f\u017eeme skute\u010dn\u011b odpustit \u2013 stejn\u011b tak je to na \u00farovni B\u016fh \u2013 \u010dlov\u011bk<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;<strong>Bez \u00fa\u010dasti druh\u00e9 strany nem\u016f\u017eeme skute\u010dn\u011b odpustit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Meze odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed:<\/strong><\/em><br>\n1) Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed nen\u00ed nic snadn\u00e9ho<br>\n2) Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed neodstra\u0148uje n\u00e1sledky proh\u0159e\u0161ku<br>\n3) Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee se automaticky obnov\u00ed d\u016fv\u011bra<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed samo o sob\u011b d\u016fv\u011bru neobnov\u00ed, nicm\u00e9n\u011b bez odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed se d\u016fv\u011bra neobnov\u00ed nikdy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4) Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed n\u00e1m nevyma\u017ee z pam\u011bti vzpom\u00ednku na proh\u0159e\u0161ek<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>U\u010dte se odpou\u0161t\u011bt mali\u010dkosti a rovn\u011b\u017e se za mali\u010dkosti omlouvat.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L\u00e1ska\n k \u010dlov\u011bku, kter\u00fd se odm\u00edt\u00e1 omluvit \u2013 i kdy\u017e v\u00e1m n\u011bkdo ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a nechce \nse omluvit nebo nen\u00ed omluvy schopen, m\u016f\u017eete se p\u0159esto zbavit hn\u011bvu, \nkter\u00fd v\u016f\u010di n\u011bmu c\u00edt\u00edte.<br>\n<strong>1.<\/strong> \u00daleva \u2013 c\u00edtit \u00falevu je n\u011bco zcela jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e \nn\u011bkomu odpustit. Opro\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed se od \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m zran\u011bn\u00ed zp\u016fsobil \u2013 \n\u00faleva od zran\u011bn\u00ed i hn\u011bvu<br>\n<strong>2.<\/strong> Vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 hn\u011bv\u00e1te se opr\u00e1vn\u011bn\u011b. Hn\u011bv by m\u011bl b\u00fdt ale jen n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvn\u00edkem, nikoli trval\u00fdm obyvatelem. (\u0161patn\u00e9 nakl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed s bolest\u00ed a hn\u011bvem)<br>\n<strong>3.<\/strong> Spl\u00e1cejte zlo dobrem \u2013 velmi t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Opla\u0165te zlo dobrem. <br>\n<strong>4.<\/strong> Vyu\u017eijte spr\u00e1vn\u011b svou bolest \u2013 \u00faleva, p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00ed chyby, l\u00e1ska. Budete m\u00edt svobodu j\u00edt d\u00e1l \u017eivotem a vyu\u017e\u00edvat l\u00e9pe \u010das a energii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nep\u0159\u00edtel odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed: STRACH<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(odm\u00edtnut\u00ed, p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed se, \u017ee se m\u011b n\u011bco dotklo, vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9ho pod\u00edlu \nviny, druh\u00fd si na\u0161e odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed vylo\u017e\u00ed jako pr\u00e1vo jednat \u0161patn\u011b)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak se tedy m\u016f\u017eeme st\u00e1t odpou\u0161t\u011bj\u00edc\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Prvn\u00ed krok:<\/strong><br>\nOdpus\u0165te sami sob\u011b<br>\n&#8211; kdy\u017e si vzpomenete na sv\u00e1 minul\u00e1 selh\u00e1n\u00ed, kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m vr\u00e1t\u00ed emoci\u00e1ln\u00ed \nbolest, mus\u00edte sami sob\u011b odpustit stejn\u011b, jako v\u00e1m odpustili druz\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Druh\u00fd krok:<\/strong><br>\nOmluvte se za sv\u00e1 selh\u00e1n\u00ed ve vztaz\u00edch<br>\nOmlouv\u00e1me-li se:<br>\n&#8211; d\u00e1v\u00e1me najevo, \u017ee p\u0159ej\u00edm\u00e1me zodpov\u011bdnost za sv\u00e9 nevhodn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed: \u201eUd\u011blal jsem chybu\u201c<br>\n&#8211; vyjad\u0159ujeme l\u00edtost: \u201eJe mi l\u00edto, \u017ee v\u00e1s m\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed tak zranilo. Styd\u00edm se za to, co jsem ud\u011blal.\u201c<br>\n&#8211; vyjad\u0159ujeme opravdovou touhu po zm\u011bn\u011b: \u201eN\u011bco takov\u00e9ho u\u017e nechci nikdy ud\u011blat.\u201c<br>\n&#8211; pros\u00edme o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed: \u201eOdpust\u00edte mi, pros\u00edm?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>T\u0159et\u00ed krok:<\/strong><br>\nZaujm\u011bte v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm postoj opravdov\u00e9 l\u00e1sky<br>\n&#8211; M\u00e1te-li snahu odpou\u0161t\u011bt, m\u016f\u017eete zakou\u0161et frustraci, pokud se druh\u00fd \n\u010dlov\u011bk st\u00e1le znova dopou\u0161t\u00ed t\u00e9ho\u017e proh\u0159e\u0161ku. Sv\u00fdm postojem \u201eodpustit\u201c \nd\u00e1v\u00e1te druh\u00e9mu najevo, \u017ee jste v\u017edy p\u0159ipraveni vztah obnovit. Skute\u010dn\u00e1 \nl\u00e1ska v\u00e1s vede k tomu, abyste byli p\u0159ipraveni odpou\u0161t\u011bt st\u00e1le znovu, bez\n ohledu na to, kolikr\u00e1t to bude.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed &#8211; nez\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1me v moci hn\u011bvu Odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed nen\u00ed n\u00e1hodn\u00fd \u010din. Je to trval\u00fd postoj. Martin Luther King ml. Jsme nesm\u00edrn\u011b mor\u00e1ln\u00ed bytosti. Kdy\u017e n\u00e1m n\u011bkdo ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, cosi v na\u0161em nitru n\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1:&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":121,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-knihy"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=120"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/120\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":122,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/120\/revisions\/122"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/naucseto.cz\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}